Friday, December 6, 2019

My Supports

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" My Supports " 
Higher education, theoretically, will enable individuals to expand their knowledge and skills, express their thoughts clearly in speech and in writing, grasp abstract concepts and theories, and increase their understanding of the world and their community (Allen, 2005).  
In my decision to gain higher education I have gotten support from family, friends, co-workers and so many others in and out of my immediate circle. Support for me occurs daily with my family and my co-workers. My family calls, text, visit and pitches in with crazy things like bringing me breakfast or lunch. It is a great feeling to know that I am being thought of in my presence and absence with them. I move around a lot; from the moment I awake in the morning. I more often, than not forget to eat or in my defense, I don’t have enough time. 
 My co-workers, I absolutely adore because they all love on me and show their support in the most special ways. They will come by my office to give me hugs, bring me treats, send me emails or place silly sticky notes on my desk if they feel I have been to quiet or they have not seen me for the day. The ask how class is going and generally say something to positive. There is not one day I do not receive visitors. The funny thing about the visits are, I am the one that has everything anyone could need in my office, so the visit is beneficial from all parties involved. If you need tea, a snack, extra supplies, have a question or just need to get something off their chest, I am the go-to person.  
The great thing about the support my circle gives me is a sense of purpose, encouragement and motivation. They pour into me just as much as I hope that I am into them. If I am late for work or don’t show, the love and concern I get via calls or messages is priceless.  When I make my rounds and do not see someone that should be there, I do the same. I feel valued and loved by my co-workers and family. I think I’ve made a positive lasting impact with them that they show such adoration in their interaction with me. I am highly attached to those that are in my circle so I would be shattered if anything took those connections away.  
I recently have been having trouble sleeping and l shared it with one co-worker. It has gotten to be difficult to function in my day to day responsibilities with both home and work. Now that my entire team is aware of my issue with the lack of sleep, they have been sharing their own personal remedies to help me through. I have gotten articles to read, special teas and special playlist to help me through. We have not found a fix as of yet however, I think when my body has had enough of being rebellious it will get the rest it needs.  

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5 comments:

Cheryl King said...

Good positive support can truly help you succeed. I see you have a good support system from your family and coworkers. From the sound of it seems like you have a support system that wants to see you succeed and they are their lending a helping hand to make sure you stay focus and succeed while on your various journeys. Like you I love my circle and would not trade them for the world. When it comes to sleeping I some time have the same problem I found that Bath and Body Works have an aromatherapy called sleep it is very calming and it helps to calm the nervous energy and relaxes you. I also had to see a neurologist and she said that my anxiety is what keeps me from sleeping. Have you done a sleep study? Good luck in all you do.

For The Love Of Teaching said...

Viola,
I am so glad that you mentioned your co-workers in your blog this week as well. I feel as though I would be completely lost without my co-workers. I think that I am very lucky to work in such a supportive environment. I also appreciate that you mentioned sleep as well as anxiety. My first year teaching I was diagnosed with severe anxiety. My co-workers helped me to face my anxiety and get medical help. They encourage me to take mental health days when they are needed. We live by a mantra, "If you ask your students 'How are you feeling?' ask yourself the same thing.
-Heather Rand

matthews said...

It's amazing how much support you have from your co-workers. You are truly blessed to have such great positivity from your co-workers and family. Surround yourself with positive people who will support you during your bad days, not just your good days. (Author unknown) I really enjoyed your blog.

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Tammy Young said...

It is a valuable thing to find the right support system in his life. Support systems are comprised of people who really care about you no matter what choices you have made in your life. A support system is a network of peers, family, and friends that are always there for you to support you in every way they can. Those who are closer to you such as your family can also support you financially. Through a good support system, you could accomplish your goals perhaps much earlier than you’ve expected. There’s nothing like a team of people that are ready to have your back at any given time.

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Garon M. said...

I think it is great that you have the relationship with your co-workers that you do, as I am sure that helps make your work environment and work more enjoyable.

I, also, have trouble sleeping. I think mine is attributed to work-related stress and anxiety. I always feel like I am thinking/reflecting about work. It's basically hard to turn my brain off so I can actually go to sleep. It's interesting to see that this seems to be a "thing" with people that work with children/in education.

Great post!

Personal Childhood Web

I have such a long list of people who have made a great impact on my life as a child. My mother is 1 of 10 children and my father is 1 of 12. However, the five people I must name are my mom, my father, my granny, my little brother Kelvin and my English teacher Mrs. Wells. For my mothers' family I am the oldest grandchild. That is a interesting role to have. Everyone looks to you for your first everything. Everyone wants to show you so much and it has all been useful at some point in my life. My aunts and uncles on both sides taught me a great deal. If I were to sum it up I would say that it equated to love and happiness. I was given so much love and support and as I got older I got better with being able to demonstrate the same love and support. My happiness was genuinely their happiness. From cooking to fishing to picking cotton I got to experience the things I encountered in my life by my choice.
My granny was and is my nurse, my ear, my box of all things good.
My brother was my first responsibility and confidant. I value the bond that was created between he and I.
I can say that every teacher that I had growing up had a positive impact on my life as well. My English teacher Mrs. Wells more so as she had been around to teach a few of my aunts and uncles. From the moment she discovered who my family was it became an automatic expectation of hers that I set an example with the others around me in how to speak and carry oneself. This is still something I feel I carry with me today.