Friday, December 6, 2019

My Supports

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" My Supports " 
Higher education, theoretically, will enable individuals to expand their knowledge and skills, express their thoughts clearly in speech and in writing, grasp abstract concepts and theories, and increase their understanding of the world and their community (Allen, 2005).  
In my decision to gain higher education I have gotten support from family, friends, co-workers and so many others in and out of my immediate circle. Support for me occurs daily with my family and my co-workers. My family calls, text, visit and pitches in with crazy things like bringing me breakfast or lunch. It is a great feeling to know that I am being thought of in my presence and absence with them. I move around a lot; from the moment I awake in the morning. I more often, than not forget to eat or in my defense, I don’t have enough time. 
 My co-workers, I absolutely adore because they all love on me and show their support in the most special ways. They will come by my office to give me hugs, bring me treats, send me emails or place silly sticky notes on my desk if they feel I have been to quiet or they have not seen me for the day. The ask how class is going and generally say something to positive. There is not one day I do not receive visitors. The funny thing about the visits are, I am the one that has everything anyone could need in my office, so the visit is beneficial from all parties involved. If you need tea, a snack, extra supplies, have a question or just need to get something off their chest, I am the go-to person.  
The great thing about the support my circle gives me is a sense of purpose, encouragement and motivation. They pour into me just as much as I hope that I am into them. If I am late for work or don’t show, the love and concern I get via calls or messages is priceless.  When I make my rounds and do not see someone that should be there, I do the same. I feel valued and loved by my co-workers and family. I think I’ve made a positive lasting impact with them that they show such adoration in their interaction with me. I am highly attached to those that are in my circle so I would be shattered if anything took those connections away.  
I recently have been having trouble sleeping and l shared it with one co-worker. It has gotten to be difficult to function in my day to day responsibilities with both home and work. Now that my entire team is aware of my issue with the lack of sleep, they have been sharing their own personal remedies to help me through. I have gotten articles to read, special teas and special playlist to help me through. We have not found a fix as of yet however, I think when my body has had enough of being rebellious it will get the rest it needs.  

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Personal Childhood Web

I have such a long list of people who have made a great impact on my life as a child. My mother is 1 of 10 children and my father is 1 of 12. However, the five people I must name are my mom, my father, my granny, my little brother Kelvin and my English teacher Mrs. Wells. For my mothers' family I am the oldest grandchild. That is a interesting role to have. Everyone looks to you for your first everything. Everyone wants to show you so much and it has all been useful at some point in my life. My aunts and uncles on both sides taught me a great deal. If I were to sum it up I would say that it equated to love and happiness. I was given so much love and support and as I got older I got better with being able to demonstrate the same love and support. My happiness was genuinely their happiness. From cooking to fishing to picking cotton I got to experience the things I encountered in my life by my choice.
My granny was and is my nurse, my ear, my box of all things good.
My brother was my first responsibility and confidant. I value the bond that was created between he and I.
I can say that every teacher that I had growing up had a positive impact on my life as well. My English teacher Mrs. Wells more so as she had been around to teach a few of my aunts and uncles. From the moment she discovered who my family was it became an automatic expectation of hers that I set an example with the others around me in how to speak and carry oneself. This is still something I feel I carry with me today.