My daughter has been off work since the beginning of Covid-19 and finally got called back to work a couple of months ago as a behavioral therapist in Houston. She also recently moved which meant she needed to enroll my grandson in a new learning center. At my grandson new center my daughter has access to real time videos and pictures to highlight Mason’s day. I was able to view a short clip of interaction between my grandson and his peers as well as he and his teachers.
I noticed that the teachers were very active and involved with their students. The asked them a lot of questions and it was obvious to me that the kids were happy, attentive, and helpful with each other.
The teachers asked questions that the children answered freely. The questions allowed the children to think about themselves or people they knew. I think they must have read a book about pets because they were talking about big dogs and small dogs. They shared how they had a dog and died or that they had multiple dogs. The kids talked about the color of their dogs and if they were afraid of dogs. One of the teachers asked one of the kids why were they afraid of dogs and that question alone made me think of how that made that particular child think about what it was about a dog that frightened them. “We believe teacher talk that challenges children to use and build their cognitive skills is one of the most essential functions of language. Challenging talk builds on what children say and moves beyond the immediate conversational context (Dangel, 2010).
The teachers showed genuine interest and support for what the children were thinking and feeling. I like how their conversation did not appear rushed or forced. Based off the reaction on the children face and how willing they were to share their thoughts and feelings I think they felt valued and that what they thought and felt mattered.
“Cannella speaks of accepting that children “can speak for themselves” and of searching “for ways that we can learn to listen” (Stephenson, 2009). In my experience most children share what they are thinking often times without being asked. I think that when asked specific questions to help children channel their thoughts and build on their learning allowing them to express themselves and how they are feeling shows them that their voices are important. I think for the child that was afraid of dogs or even the one that dog died, think a later exercise with a persona doll would be useful to help them with what they were feeling. “Persona doll discussions provide a time when it is acceptable to express strong feelings and explore options for solutions to difficult questions” (Pierce, 2010). I have always enjoyed listening to the thoughts of all children and I think that it is what helps me connect instantly with them because I allow them to set the tone and talk or ask questions to know what they are thinking and feeling. In listening to children, it tells gives me an opening to motivate them and build on getting to know them better.
References
Dangel, J. R., & Durden, T. R. (2010). The Nature of Teacher Talk during Small Group Activities. YC: Young Children, 65(1), 74–81.
Pierce, J., & Johnson, C. L. (2010). Problem Solving with Young Children Using Persona Dolls. YC: Young Children, 65(6), 106–108.
Stephenson, A. (2009). Stepping Back to Listen to Jeff: Conversations with a 2-Year-Old. YC: Young Children, 64(2), 90–95.
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